I have been mucking around with ChatGPT and other similar solutions.
In reviewing others’ experiences, I have seen that many talk about which prompts work best for certain kinds of inquiries.
This seems kind of funny, that we all need to become AI whisperers now. We need to carefully construct our requests to get the right results. Isn’t the tech supposed to be smart, and working for us?
Then, I thought: hey, wait a second! What if we reverse roles? Perhaps the AI can give me the prompts I need to get the results and information IRL from real people? Then, the AI could truly work for me, and help solve problems in my daily life.
I started with a typical challenge, and got some interesting results. Here is how the dialog went:
You
I have a problem that I am hoping you can help me with. We have a very crowded refrigerator, and it is overdue for a cleaning. Without getting too gross, there are a lot of food items that sit there past their expiration date. Over time they can spoil, taking on odd characteristics like changes in color, smell, or sprouting hair-like fungus. Sometimes liquids spill and leave a mess. Do you understand?
ChatGPT
Yes, I understand your situation. It sounds like you have a refrigerator that needs some serious cleaning and organizing. Over time, expired food items and spills can create quite a mess and even lead to unpleasant odors. Cleaning out the refrigerator regularly is important for maintaining food safety and hygiene. Would you like some tips on how to tackle this cleaning task effectively?
You
Yes, you’ve got it! Well done. Cleaning advice? Not exactly. I need to further describe the challenge. I find that, invariably, and when I am quite hungry, just the item I need – something that is fresh and good to eat – is hidden behind all the detritus. Still with me?
ChatGPT
Absolutely, I understand your frustration. It’s often the case that the items we need most seem to be buried beneath the clutter and mess in the refrigerator, especially when we’re hungry and in a rush. It can be quite a challenge to find what you need amidst the chaos. This situation calls for a systematic approach to organizing your refrigerator to ensure that fresh items are easily accessible when you need them. Would you like some suggestions on how to organize your refrigerator to avoid this problem in the future?
You
Please, no organizing or cleaning just yet, we will get to that. First, I need to eat. Have you ever heard of “hangry”, ChatGPT?
ChatGPT
Yes, “hangry” is a term used to describe the combination of hunger and anger or irritability that many people experience when they haven’t eaten for a while. When you’re hungry, your blood sugar levels drop, which can affect your mood and make you feel more irritable or frustrated. It’s a common phenomenon, and it’s important to address your hunger before trying to tackle tasks like organizing or cleaning, especially when dealing with a challenging situation like a cluttered refrigerator.
ChatGPT
Would you like some quick meal ideas to help satisfy your hunger?
You
No that is OK, but thanks anyway. What I am looking for is the ideal prompt to use with my wife. I love her dearly, and she has many great characteristics. But, often, finding things in the refrigerator (without the suggested cleaning and organizing, both good ideas) can get contentious. Let me explain further. She is better at finding stuff than me, hands down, but often does not want to play the game of “find Bob’s missing lunch in the refrigerator.” I am sure if I use just the right words, she will comply. Can you help me construct a request for her – provide me with the words to use to get her to dig into the refrigerator to find the missing item? If needed, you can feel free to suggest that I offer her certain “favors” in return.ChatGPT
ChatGPT
Certainly, here’s a suggestion for how you might approach the situation with your wife:
“Hey [Wife’s Name], I know you’re amazing at finding things in the refrigerator, and I really appreciate that about you. I hate to bother you with this, but I’m having a hard time finding [specific item, e.g., Bob’s lunch] in there. I could really use your help. I promise I’ll owe you one, and I’ll make it up to you with [mention a favor or gesture that you know she would appreciate].”
By acknowledging her skill and expressing appreciation for her help, you’re setting a positive tone for the request. Offering to make it up to her with a favor or gesture shows your willingness to reciprocate and makes it more likely that she’ll be willing to assist you. Remember to approach the conversation with kindness and understanding, and hopefully, she’ll be more than willing to help you find the missing item in the refrigerator.
You
Thanks. Sounds reasonable. Ah, crap, sorry, I forgot to mention one thing. I did say this can get contentious, and my hangriness can be met by her crankiness. But, she does have a sense of humor. I could try your suggestion above. I am thinking, to appeal to her funny bone, perhaps it will help to say this with a Jamaican rasta accent. Can you rephrase your suggestion accordingly?ChatGPT
ChatGPT
Of course, here’s a rephrased version with a Jamaican rasta accent:
“Yo, [Wife’s Name], you know you’re di master at finding tings in di fridge, and I give thanks fi dat about yuh. But mi sorry to bother yuh, mi just can’t find [specific item, like Bob’s lunch] in dere. Mi could really use yuh help, mon. Mi promise mi owe yuh one, and mi will make it up to yuh wit [mention a favor or gesture she’d appreciate], ya man.”
ChatGPT
Adding a Jamaican rasta accent can add some humor and light-heartedness to the request, making it more likely to be received well. Just remember to keep the tone respectful and appreciative. Good luck!
You
Ah you are spot on! One last thing…. what favor should I offer in return. Use your imagination and don’t be afraid to get saucy.
ChatGPT
Certainly, let’s get creative! How about offering to give her a relaxing foot massage, complete with soothing music and scented candles? Or you could offer to take over one of her least favorite household chores for the day, giving her some extra time to relax and unwind. If you’re feeling particularly saucy, you could offer to cook her favorite meal for dinner and serve it to her in bed, complete with a side of dessert and a glass of wine. Remember to tailor the favor to her preferences and interests, and she’ll surely appreciate the gesture!
You
You are the best ChatGPT, we will leave the rest to the imagination..
ChatGPT
Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad I could help. Feel free to reach out if you ever need more assistance. Best of luck with your refrigerator quest and all your endeavors!
